Self development -Lesson number 52 - FIND YOUR PURPOSE :-

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Self development -Lesson number 52 - 

FIND YOUR PURPOSE :-

 First of all find purpose or vision in your life
And to achieve that vision find teacher for mentor

 Because person who has no teacher for mentor or guru you will destroy himself by going in the wrong direction

 In achieving your your vision between you and your vision there are lot of problems there are a lot of hurdles obstacles issues limited resources you will have to overcome all this problems and you will need help and guidance

Achieving vision you will not have any direction any path road way


By using resources how much big empire you have built how much big organisation you have built everybody will ask people will ask even you will ask yourself and at the end god will ask yourself

 It is good to get lost people who have not lost in their life how they will show show path way direction to the others and himself
People should get failure and from failure they can learn about right direction

However you cannot remain confused throughout your life you cannot say I am not understanding my life for so long time after particular time you have to come on the right track

I cannot say I cannot understand this word people society others what is happening with me what is right what is wrong

Your to give meaning to your life to your existence

I don't know why people commit suicide it is so hard to swallow that people don't get one good reason to spend their life to us that goal vision

If you are not getting any good reason any good vision goal objective in your life then that is your inefficiency ineffectiveness

 Then enter society as failed to show the right way right direction to the the individual and we have to take the

There will be two types of  people who will not understand themselves

First  person who will shy I will not take decision aur action

Second person will boost himself and will do nothing

If something is your claim that it is yours and if something is not yours don't claim that


Most of the people find fault with others and they don't look at themselves

When you will respect others and worry about others when you will take care others like you are taking care of yourself then others will respect yourself

Always fight according to your potential
Always take opportunities as per your potential
Always select enemy as per your potential

  Example person who is having 20 kilo weight should not fight with the person who is having 80/100 kilowt

People expecting god will help him in all the situation
Yes god will help you
But there are certain things which leads our techniques our potential
Our skills
Doing any work we need skills we have to develop that skills then only god will help us

Many a times people say a people think god will help me
But till date God has not help them
Where to ask question why God has not help us
 First god is expecting us to do something to try and then God will respond


When people will advise you to achieve your vision they may not guide you properly

Some will say god will help you
Some Will you motivate you

Prioritise your life

Stop  thinking about trivial issues which are not essential or necessary

When  you have to achieve big vision you will have to to collect small small things and put together in right way



People always complaint God is not helping other peoples are not helping resources are not sufficient my friends are not helping relatives are not helping and that means I should not go ahead from here this universe is not helping me

The person who knows art of living who knows how to to go ahead with failures it will not possible that he will not achieve his vision

The main problem is people don't have big vision that's why they are stuck with small PT trivial issues and fighting with each other for small goals

In the life we have deadlock because you don't have big vision you cannot able to to overcome small problems
You should say I don't care it does not affect me vision I have is very big and small problems cannot stop me
Small losses cannot detail that person

The person who cannot handle this I get irritated
That person is only limited to I me myself

People do not get actualized they do not find good vision in life there's a stuck to I me myself my religion my people my family

Person who achieve intelligence and knowledge become quite come and introvert he will not keep on chit chatting discussing he become very silent person

 People who gain knowledge and intelligence become silent and serious about their vision

Those people who speak don't do any work and those people who do work they don't speak

To become great person in life is not joke and having good vision great vision is not a joke
Life is hard work of life

The most difficult task in life is to handle yourself and not the others

Your inner voice is the most destructive part of your life

Because of wrong innervoice you will make friends to enemy and enemy towards person
Because of your mind working in wrong direction you will claim big things you will blame others you will not be under control you will feel inferior you will not co-operate with the people you will waste time you will keep people aside

Because of his inner voice person don't accept that he will become big will become great you can do certain things we can achieve vision because of wrong innervoice you will start thinking negative things

In this wrong innervoice you will always tend towards slavery

Some people think that we should not go after vision because you have to work hard and it is very difficult

Some people will think that we are just slave and it is not our work to think big and achieve big things and we are not meant for that it is not my job

You think big and let not allow anybody to ruin penis destroy  in your vision


If you want to to achieve your vision have to to fight with yourself your inner voice and make your mind very stressful

If you are not internal strong mentally positive and your value your principal your positive thinking is not in right direction you cannot able to even complete your qualification aur education
You won't be able to handle difficult times
The worst thing in your life is your own voice from the mind that voice will not guide you properly will always think negatively will always disturb you in your vision
Interview situation your negative mind will not let you listen properly understand properly make decision properly

Will not allow you to differentiate between positive and negative

Differentiate between optimism and pessimism

This negative mind doesn't like truth fact
 Doesn't like criticism can you differentiate between problems and solutions doesn't like proper things rules regulation laws ethics

This negative mind of yours will always like shortcut will always like to boost will always like to shop will always like to to relax laziness false doubt and that negative mind will be more happy if you sit idle

Your dreams will ruin Perish destroy later
First of all your did you mind will kill you your dreams negative mind will not allow you too accept you are good person you can achieve your vision I can can overcome that particular problem I can achieve milestone I should stop doing small things I am not ordinary person I am legend I am leader I cannot waste time like others I cannot waste time in party addictions smoking I am far more greater than all this I cannot get disturbed by other people and their criticism about me e I am larger than life and I know end of the day I will be in headlines in big news and people will run after me

The person want to achieve big targets due to work lot and speak less they have to work on themselves and after that they have to work on others

If you do not have vision then you will have anger then you will get irritated
You will angry
Even small things will irritate you angry you
Within a minute you will reach to the peak level of your anger


But person with the great vision will not have that much time to spend on such trivial tiny small minute things
This people will not have time even affection love friend

People with vision have to   work a lot work like hell like how to reach out to the sky
How can thiese  people Waste  time just
Boost about them self
Create problems for others brand conscious showing status show off

Person with the great vision has to suffer has to go through lot of experiments examinations hard work great defeats great losses

Great vision people will not stick to their caste religion village identity they want to come out of it as early as possible
Great vision people will not stick to you I me myself and they are always thinking about team and society

If you want to influence people you must have experience you must have knowledge you must have intelligence you must have humility humble politeness

Your inner mind negative mind will not allow you to do that
Your negative mind will always think that you are are superior and you need not to work anymore
You how to work more to overcome your negative mind